Does size matter? - Part 1

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Does size matter? What do you think I'm referring to? :p

I've decided to focus my next few posts on, yes, penis size. Here are the areas which I plan to *touch on*:
- What's considered big, average or small
- Bigger = better (sex)? [Read Part 2]
- Penis enlargement

What's big, average or micro?

Length
Let's take a look at the measurements to see where you *stand* ;p

Average erect penis size by ethnicity:

  • African/black: 6.74"
  • Native American: 6.49"
  • Middle Eastern: 6.28"
  • European/white: 6.26"
  • Hispanic: 6.03"
  • Asian/Pacific Islander: 5.50"
Erect penis size distribution:
  • Under 3.7" :2.5%
  • 3.8"-4.5": 13.5%
  • 4.6"-6.0": 68.0%
  • 6.1"-6.8": 13.5%
  • >6.9" : 2.5%

An erect penis that is less than 2.5" long (for Asians) is referred to as a micropenis. This condition occurs in 0.6% of the population.
Note: The medically correct definition is "an erect penile length of at least 2.5 standard deviations smaller than the mean penis size". Therefore, for Asians that's 5.5"-2.5" =2.5".

Thickness
Average girth/circumference of an erect penis: 4.0"-5.5"
Note: Standard condom width is 5.2cm/2" wide

If you are dissatisfied with the size of your penis, you are not alone. Studies have shown that many men, especially those with small to average size penis are dissatisfied. If you have an average size penis but feel dissatisfied with it, you may be suffering from what the doctors call "small penis syndrome" which is better treated with counseling than with penis enlargement surgery.

What do I consider to be large?
Large: I'd consider 6" in length and 4 finger-widths wide to be large.
Average: About 4.5"-5.5" long and 3 finger-widths wide is average.
Small: Anything less than the above.
But bigger = better sex? I'll discuss that tomorrow ;) [Read Part 2]



Sources:
Men's Health
American Psychological Association
BBC News
Human for Sale
Spiegel Online

47 comments:

TrainMan said...

Woah, greedy girl..

anyway most girls always tell me they prefer it to be average length and bigger width..

TrainMan said...

btw the way you show your fingers, as if you want it in some guys ass..
*in fear

can i just have one finger only? if possible the pinky..

Taka said...

There are girls who complain to me their partner's penis is small..so i guess more or less size does matters? But i personally think it doesn't matter when you know how to make a girl happy :P

Yu-Kym said...

Trainman, I didn't say that I want it big. Just stating what I consider to be big :)

Taka, I will certainly address your comments in my next blog :p

pych69 said...

if u hv a 7" penis but only last for a minute will be meaningless too... :)

Yu-Kym said...

Yes of course... so many things to consider... no wonder guys are obsessed with penis matters.

Anonymous said...

my gf wont make me ejaculate whenever she perform bj...i feel very disappointed for it...

Anonymous said...

pls gv me some advice

Yu-Kym said...

sry i cant help... sexual issues are physical and emotional n the situation is different for each couple. i dun wana give u a quick fix solution that might not help or make things worse

Anonymous said...

i'm 18...i hv a 15cm erected penis, and 3.5cm diameter in its width...is it considered to be large?...will it grow longer?

Yu-Kym said...

You can compare your size against what I listed above.

Anonymous said...

wow..........well good luck to u in finding someone with length and width. but whts the point if tht somone can't perform,,,,so i say its getting the best of both worlds, u realli can have the cake n eat it too. so if even if tht person is small, but can last real long,,jaz accept it.

rite guys?

Yu-Kym said...

Non-performance is another matter. But size matter! Don't forget that there are guys out with big penis AND can perform. As for small penis, I wrote about sex with men who have micropenis here: http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2009/06/one-minute-man-vs-micropenis.html

Anonymous said...

size matters a little but hardness matters a lot. To me, it has to be like banana with skin - u know. Cannot be like tofu, can't even go in.
Jessie

Anonymous said...

not to show off or anything but i've been told that mine is quite "thick". it actually put off some girls, unfortunately.

Anonymous said...

yu-kym
i like ass bang but my girl dont like it how can can i ask it from her ?

Anonymous said...

i had a bf with thick and short penis, i could felt his thickness but couldnt felt his longness. Now i have a bf with long and average thickness that really can give me peaks and excitement. He has the right size for me.:)

grastansic said...

Can I post my penis pic to u, then u tell me how is it? cause dont know how is ur finger size.

Anonymous said...

YK,
Mine is 6" & slightly more than 2 finger wide. My partner likes it and remarks " I like u fucking me, I feel so good", each session I noticed she cum at least twice or 3 times, while I struggle to cum (probably mentally wandering). I get slightly turn off when she say, cum quickly, i am so tired, too much water. I told her to shut up, talk dirty to me, so that i could cum. Am I normal? It takes me at least 40min to an hour to achieve first cum............I think after she cum, i should switch her or tell her to suck me off for a change.
KFR

Yu-Kim you crack me up... i luv your blog!

FishyFishy said...

Quote:
Note: The medically correct definition is "an erect penile length of at least 2.5 standard deviations smaller than the mean penis size". Therefore, for Asians that's 5.5"-2.5" =2.5".

My bad if i had mis-understood what you were trying to write, but 5.5 - 2.5 = 3

Anonymous said...

I know Ang Mor husbands whose Asian wives have had affairs with other ang mors in order to seek out bigger penises. To Asian guys I say check the pressure inside and whether you have an upward incline. Chinese wives say this hardness and "upwardness" tickles the G-Spot. No woman likes a flaccid grub burrowing inside them.

Sean said...

You're a very smart woman, you know that size is not the only thing that makes a woman happy (it's just like looks, a pretty woman can be ugly just because she doesn't have the right personality, or the guys too, in fact, the most attractive women I met are those who have great personality, and looks can be enhanced with great personality).

It's like Tiger Wood's mistress versus John Edward's... John's mistress has the brain, and none of Tiger's ever has any IQ at all... it always feel nicer to have someone in your bed who has a brain, because you know they pick you carefully, and not go to bed with anyone who has a large dick.

You read a lot.... and know how to use the right topic to push frontiers like this. Wish that I know you much earlier, (not in that sexual sense, but knowing you as a friend). Sex in my marriage ain't the only thing I live for. It's part of my life. I know the consequences of being addicted to sex. But knowing too much, makes one dump. Just like knowing the reality of your dick size, if you know your's small.... would you ever enjoy sex with your partners again?

There are many debates whether White or Black women can accept Asian men's dick size or whether they are really nice afterall.... again, if you go into a relationship with a pre-conceived mindset.... then the relationships ended up suck..... or fabulous. Like your size of your dick too.

Penis, virgina, tongue, hands and brain... they're all the same. You have them, but you need to learn how to use them. A handicapped person may be better off than a "normal" one.... if he/she knows how to use his talent correctly.

Sean,
A Singaporean who has lived in the U.S. for 15 years.

Anonymous said...

i hv a 14cm erected penis, and 4.5cm diameter in its width...is it considered to be large?...how to make it longer?

I strongly believe that Size does matter indeed.I am a white lady and I am married to a white guy and few months back I had my first interracial sex experience with an African-American whose penis size was 10" when erect (I personally measure it by tape) and he was the first black guy I have ever had a sex relationship with , but believe me after that experience I changed completely and I don't feel like having sex with my husband any more.My husband's penis is about 5" long.Now I really feel I am hooked on black men as I had many sex encounters with many other black men in the last six months and I still want to try more black guys.So I strongly believe that SIZE DOES MATTER.

Anonymous said...

agreed... agreed...

Anonymous said...

bootyliciousmona
There is a saying once you go black you cannot go back.Lol

Anonymous said...

Yes size does matter with penises and vaginas. Just as a penis comes in a huge variety of sizes, then so do vaginas. Most older women especially after child birth never get back in shape and find they need to have an abnormally huge penis to satisfy them. As in the original post above only 2.5 % of men have a penis larger than 7 inches. This makes any penis larger than 7 inches very rare. This makes your suitable partners very limited if you need more than 7 inches and it's not the men with average size penises who have the problem, it's the female who has not tightened up her vagina by doing pelvic floor and kegel exercises after child birth. Is it any wonder why older women lose interest in their husband sexually and go looking for huge penises and why those older men go looking for younger women.

Anonymous said...

Like a keyhole and a key, only a certain key fits that keyhole exactly to open the door.

Same with vaginas and penises. Only a certain size or within a configuration of each fits one another nicely..... with a little give and take in terms of dimensions.

Too large, too small, too this too that, its a no go for either party. As when the key cant open the door, the enjoyment of sex suffers with one or both parties.

But generally size matters for a man coz its better to have it a little bigger than a little smaller. But for women, i dont know if a little bigger is better than a little smaller! In a normal average situation, I would envisage not keke

Yu-Kym, whats your take on my last comment?

curious cat

Yu-Kym said...

The keyhole and key analogy is a good one!

Anonymous said...

But u have not answered my last qn. Talking only about sizes!

Again.. I believe its better or more enjoyable for both parties for the man to have a slightly larger penis than a slightly smaller one when having sex with an average size woman (vagina). So for a man, the general implication is that size does matter.

So conversely...again just referring to the subject of size alone...just a simple example...for a woman to enjoy the pleasures from an average sized dick, would she be able to derive more pleasure if she has a slightly larger or a little smaller (tighter) vagina? Does vagina size matter as much as in the man's case? My view is that for a woman slight variation in vagina size does not matter.

What is your take on this?

curious cat

Yu-Kym said...

It's possible for a man to comment on whether having sex with a woman with a small vagina feels better than a woman with a big one (see Does size matter - part 2), it is possible for a woman to comment on whether having sex with a man with a big dick feels better than a man with a small dick (smaller is better if he can get it in at all), but I can't comment on whether a woman derives more pleasure if she has a slightly larger or a little smaller vagina (I don't think my vagina has changed in size). However, I think the strength of the PC muscles does affect the intensity of orgasm. http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2009/04/kegal-exercise.html

Anonymous said...

I agree with the first two points. So we agree too that for a man, his penis size does matter generally speaking?

But as far as a woman is concerned, nobody can tell if vagina size matters. So the reasonable conclusion is it all depends on the man's penis size. Vagina size does not matter in this sense. lol

curious cat

Yu-Kym said...

For a woman, the size of the penis does matter among other factors. But if it is too big, it might not even be able to get in.
Maybe you can check out the discussion about "loose" vaginas in this other post: http://yu-kym.blogspot.com/2009/08/vaginal-looseness.html

Anonymous said...

haha ok but we are in slightly different wavelengths. but thanks. i think i understand. cheers

curious cat

Anonymous said...

mine is 7.5", my wife n ex-gfs simply loves it as i can last up to 2 hours, n can even cum 3 (ejaculate) during that period. they tell me once they have sex with me, they won't want to have sex with another man with a smaller penis size. i agree with the statement "Size Does Matters!" those who agrees, i bet have not come across one with an above average length!

Yu-Kym said...

It's better for those women not to find out. Curiosity does kill the cat...

Lim Teck Ann Dean said...

What if I am a 1 min man plus micro penis..
Is there a cure for it?

Yu-Kym said...

Dean, regarding the 1-minute-man issue, practice makes perfect.

Anonymous said...

hi just wanted to share...mine 4.5" in length and 4" in girth..consider small but..as to date my wife still never complaint and enjoy with it...Make love 30mins-45mins and she also ejaculate 5-6 times per sessions. Now i got 1 GF status widow...as compared to her previous hsbnd mine much smaller but she gain much enjoy with me...her orgasms record with me was 9x per session...where never ever happen before...she really enjoy with me. so even though mine consider small but if u can perform better so u r the winner and size doesn't really matter...

Anonymous said...

wahhhh... if you are a tree, 4" girth I think is like the base or trunk girth of a giant sequoia or redwood tree? lol

But these trees are tall and wide. Your tree is short and wide.

So I guess its your penis girth that matters besides your love making skills. Yu-Kym, does girth size matter? keke

It could also be that you happen to have met women whose vaginal canal fits more snugly with your short of length but fat on girth. lol

You get a woman whose physical side dont meet your measurements, you may also fail in satisfying her. But when you have happy women be happy what u got lah. Dont be greedy. lol

curious cat

Anonymous said...

For a woman, the size of the penis does matter among other factors. But if it is too big, it might not even be able to get in.
penis extender

Anonymous said...

what is the biggest you had before?

JJ said...

Hi,

Mine is at least 8 inch for an Asian guy.I have some experiences,some gals find it too big only a few like my ex gf Japanese, loves it so much. Unfortunately in SIngapore, I have not find someone who loves my handsome big dick , most times I just jerk off,

Anonymous said...

I am Thai-chinese, and have a 6.7" long and 5.8" member..no kidding..I figure that puts me in the top 5th percentile for asians..I'm about as big as a "small" caucasian porn star, according to the visualiser website..all my asian GF have remarked on my size..:) and when I look in the mirror, it's almost too big on me ( being medium asian height, thin )sometimes I wonder about my ancestors from many generations back..anyway, I haven't had troubles pleasuring women,one once said afterwards, " now that's SOME F^%K " another said that I'm big,but I'm huge just before orgasm..these are all asian women..I haven't had any non asians..dunno why, i'm decent looking, but I'm monogamous..so I'll never be able prove those idiots wrong..I don't wear underwear, so I wonder if the girls check me out..never thought so till my wife complained that I needed underwear to make it less bulky looking..then I saw a pic of me this other women snapped, and i thought, oh boy,she's right...geez i wish i knew all this when i was a 13 yo underdeveloped kid ! Would asian women like to see? not that i would show, but just wanted to tell asian women, that at least this asian man = rather big too !

Bruce Lee said...

my girlfriend is 5' 9" and I'm asian, 5' 6" ...making ends meet !!

Anonymous said...

Hey YK,
Would you consider a 6.3'' long and 4.8'' circumference in your category of big and it'll be something you enjoy?